**see what had happend was…**

Everyone handles stress, grief, life trials different. No two challenges are the same. My challenge was / is (not gonna lie still learning) self esteem. To quote my girl Demi “I wonder when I love me is enough?” And you know what, This question is jacked up. Because… No one is ever going to be completely happy with their life and at the end of the day no matter if you have kids, spouse etc. You gotta love yourself. Because if you don’t love yourself first how can you love other people (correctly)

This blog is that journey for me. Trying to love myself so I can love others “correctly”. I have a daughter who is exhibiting some of the same struggles that I did when I was younger and there is NO WAY IN HELL that I will let her feel the pain that I have felt. So we both are on a new journey on self love. And helping her is also helping me. I want her to know her worth always whether or not she has a co-signer. That is one thing I wish I would have learned younger. My worth. Because you think you know how much you cost and then the price changes. The more I feel my cost going up I feel others are going on clearance. So when I say “see what had happened was…” LIFE is what had happened. Years of never feeling worthy enough definitely will make you feel like a busted EBT card lmao! Feelings of self doubt or never being good enough. Well… A CHANGE IS GONNA COME.. and I’m excited for this change. Whatever it is.

Question for you readers… What do you feel your price is??
feel free to respond or just sit and ponder on it. What is your worth?

*Much love always*

3 thoughts on “**see what had happend was…**

  1. You are such an incredible person and I am so proud that you’re making this journey. I love you so much and wish you nothing but positivity and clarity in this trying time. Also sending you good vibes. 🤍


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